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Criticism, like rain, should be gentle enough to nourish a man's growth without destroying his roots.
--- Frank A. Clark ---

I am amused by the trends that are spread via blogs, like a wildfire.
Many are silly surveys that brand us to a particular Carebear, or Smurf.
Or a Marvel Hero, or some precious stone, or some character from a TV series.
They may be entertaining, but silly still, because
Most of them lack depth. Either too few questions, or too few categories.
I recall some really general ones that could fit anyone into any category.
Nevertheless, I recall some good ones.
The Myer Briggs one was good, and some time ago someone posted one
On whether we could really tell between asians, and gays from straight and vice versa.
That was pretty interesting.

Now there's the Johari Window.
Wikpedia says that a Johari Window is a metaphorical tool intended to
Help people understand their interpersonal communication and relationships.
Primarily used in self help groupsas a heuristic device.
Hmmm ... heuristic. It's been a while since I saw this word being used.
And so, here I am, on the wagon:

Please help take part in Wildy's Johari Window - Positive Traits.

Please help take part in Wildy's Nohari Window - Negative Traits.

Honestly I'd prefer if you would just send me an email and tell me what an as**h*e I am.
If I really am one, I'll at least learn more about it and attempt to improve.
If I am not, then at least I can clear up whatever air of misunderstanding there is and make things better.
There's nothing worse than unsettled business, that festers and taints.

Let's see what happens.

And thank you for your time!

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Ur avatar is of shit colour. :p

You're one of the most polite guy I ever met.

That is your plus point but also your negative point.

i guess that's me and will be here to stay Mr Gan.


Don't think I know you well enough to do the Nohari one! :)

Yeah, after a while i realised that as well.

It might even be suggested that blogging in itself is a trend that lacks real depth :)

only +ve traits for u though u *slaps* and fine me $50 for copyright :]

well i'm adhering to the IPO guidelines.

withdrawn, distant, inattentive and not sincere.

hmm...i just know you this much.

calm, wise, knowledgable, reflective, organised, spontaneous

hmmm...i also just know you this much.

i forgot! ENTJ? it is one of the extreme quadrants.

How come no one say GOOD LOOKING, SEXY and ALLURING, which is why all you guys are here!!

Oops and confessions

Hey there!

I'm not sure how I got round to this blog but I'm lovin' it! The contents great and it has influenced my entries on occasions. Now the 'oops'. I had a few windows open and actually selected 6 traits for my own window, not realising I entered it as your traits. Needless to say I was mortified! I'm the 'morgaga' in question. If you can forgive me, you can go to my site (www.moononavalon.com) where my blog is and put 'stupid' in my negative window. Heh.

Cheers stranger!

Re: Oops and confessions

thank you stranger!

I totally agree with mcflurry.
*opps* did i just think that out loud?

yeah, i think that is me, deliberately! =)

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